Hi !
I hope the transition from spring to summer is going smoothly, wherever you are in the process. If you're like me, you love the sense of freedom
and possibility the summer brings. You may also know how quickly these positive feelings can be replaced with intense pressure to check things off our massive lists.
I’ve been reflecting on a conversation I had with a client a few years ago. She happened to be trying to lose weight, and at the beginning of our call, she shared with remorse that
she’d gained a pound at her last weigh-in. Before I could say anything, she admitted that, actually, she hadn’t gained a pound. She’d lost 2 pounds. But she’d wanted to lose 3.
How often do we do this to ourselves? It’s so easy to skip right past the win, concluding that our successes weren’t enough somehow. In my experience, the summer—with its
great and sometimes conflicting expectations (“I’ll spend every day at the beach, clean out all the closets, and submit seven journal articles by September!”)—can create the perfect breeding ground for this unhelpful mindset.
What if, instead, we focus on setting realistic goals that align with our true priorities, and make time to savor our progress, however small? I hope the resources below will help us do just that.
If there are other ways I can support you and your work, please
let me know.
As always, thanks for being here, and thanks for being you!
With my warmest wishes,